Could it be? A crush?

Well, it certainly doesn't feel like any crush I've had in the past. Perhaps that is a good thing? I definitely feel desire, but I'm not sure if it's HIM I desire, or just someone. We seem to have a lot in common, he's nerdy and smart, he's funny, he has a good job, a place to live, no car- by choice, but it's something I can deal with. However, there are no butterflies, no wondering what he is doing or what he is thinking, if I have a question I need to ask him, I just ask him and he answers. It's a foreign world. I feel like either this is something that could be fun for a while, just for now, or it could be something that is fun for a month. But I don't see it going beyond fun. He's already planning our dates as if we will be having them and I don't feel anything. I can't figure out if I am enjoying the uncomplicated way of this whole thing, or if I just don't have it in me to have an actual crush. See? Just now, I thought of my last crush and my stomach did a very small flip...with this guy, there is no flip. Is that good? Is that bad? Is it just what it is? I hope I can feel the crush thing again. Maybe it will just take personal contact...sure. Why not?